Right, but what I'm saying is that you can't go back in time and fix ANY parenting decision. I can't go back in time and tell my mom to un-yell at me for having a messy room. Parents make choices. When they choose NOT to act, there are repercussions as well. From a religious standpoint, there is an urgency with circumcision and it cannot wait, just like I can't wait until my son is 15 to tell him not to hit other children. All we can hope, as parents, is that every choice is a good one.