So the later parts seem cool but the first part of this video is just very misleading. The greeks cared a LOT about, for example, who was penetrating who, because it was a lot about societal position rather than gender. And woman-woman sex was pretty unthought of because, you know, no penis, ergo no penetration, ergo no sex. People didn't use the same language and didn't equate attraction with identity in the same way, but it wasn't. some kind of free paradise where gender was irrelevant.